i dont know how i feel about certain things anymore. i cant control things the way that i want to. not that i should but its hard to deal with it then. but how am i supposed to feel about a girl who has feelings for my boyfriend since 7th grade and tried to have a threesome with him last year when we weren't together. he said nothing happened then so it wouldn't now but when he texts her sexual things it makes it a little harder to trust him with that. i'm sorry i dont want to try and change who you are but making sexual jokes with her is not the same as making sexual jokes with someone who hasn't tried to fuck you. i dont know if i should say anything to her yet. i dont want him to be mad that i talk to her about it but i feel really uncomfortable everytime he talks to her. and i know her conversations arent that great so i dont get what he sees in talking to her. :/ i dont know what to do anymore. i'm confused.